This past weekend I found a bunch of my old writing. I will share my work with you over time. But for today, this is what a woman should know when she cares for a man.
1. TAKE CARE OF HIS EGO – You are the ONLY person that could destroy it.
2. MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHAT HE WANTS NOT WHAT YOU THINK HE WANTS – Ask him and truly listen to his words.
3. BEING A SUPPORT AGENT – His world is to support, but sometimes he needs some too.
4. BECOME HIS LOVER NOT HIS MOTHER – He left her for YOU.
5. BE A VAMP, A WOMAN AND A LADY – Give him all three and he will never need to find another.
6. SURPRISE HIM (NUDITY AT THE DOOR, TICKETS TO SEE HIS FAVORITE TEAM, BREAKFAST IN BED, ETC.) – It shows him you were thinking of him.
7. DONT COMPARE HIM TO YOUR PAST MAN – You left that man, appreciate what you have.
8. KILL HIM WITH KINDNESS – There will be enough difficult times, be kind.
9. LOVING HIS STRENGTHS AND NUTURING HIS WEAKNESSES
10. BECOMING HIS BEST FRIEND (LEARN TO LOVE WHAT HE LOVES) – He wants you to be that for him.
11. DONT JUDGE HIM BASED OFF YOUR PAST EXPERIENCES - EVERY MAN AND SITUATION IS DIFFERENT.
12. DONT TRY TO CHANGE HIM (WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET) – What attracted you to him is what you like.
13. HAVING A LIFE OF YOUR OWN (DONT BECOME CO-DEPENDENT) – Be independent, but always come home to his bed.
14. TELL HIM VERBALLY THAT YOU APPRECIATE HIM (CONCENTRATE ON HIS POSITIVE ATTRIBUTES, LEARN TO BUILD HIM) – Tell him, don’t assume that he knows or is sure.
15. TRUST HIM UNTIL YOU HAVE A GOOD REASON NOT TOO
16. DONT MAKE HIM GUESS WHAT YOU WANT – He tries to guess, but neither of you know when he is right.
17. PRAISE HIM IN PUBLIC, PROTEST IN PRIVATE
18. LOVE HIS FAMILY (AS MUCH AS YOU CAN) – Ask about them often and offer to visit.
19. LEARN TO APPRECIATE THE WAY HE SAYS I LOVE YOU - REMEMBER THE NON-VERBAL SPEAKS LOUDER THAN THE VERBAL, SOMETIMES.
20. REMIND HIM OFTEN OF WHY YOU CHOSE TO LOVE HIM – He may forget, tell him EXACTLY how you feel.
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